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Harrison's avatar

I love adding spicy nduja sauce when I do spaghetti

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Jen's avatar

This Jersey Girl is craving sauce now....it IS its own meal, after all.

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Tom Pryor's avatar

You can take the boy out of Jersey, but you can't take Red Sauce out of the boy...

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CassandraK's avatar

Red Sauce, Red Wine, Radiohead, = Relaxation, Rejuvenation and Red Birds.

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Ed's avatar
Jun 10Edited

Hank, in the words of Holly, "Things will get better".

Your red sauce reminded me of a Beaverton neighbor who ONLY knew how to cook in massive quantities (her stuffed pepper recipe was for two dozen peppers).

Her sauce had: 5 28oz cans crushed tomatoes; 3T sugar; oregano, pepper, red pepper to taste; 2 bay leaves; 4 sweet and 4 hot Italian whole sausages, 4 cloves garlic; and an 2 uncut flank steaks. Brown the meat in olive oil, then add the rest of the ingredients. Simmer for 3 hours. (The note said "all the flavor comes from the meat).

Looking forward to seeing you at Nixtaco.

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tuffy's avatar

Aw Hank

So sorry there’s more trouble in the personal arena. The perfect Ms Cardinal is out there for you.

Love the sauce 💕

Also loving Borderlands, which I received yesterday.

Making all the fermented and dried recipes to take on our long road trip soon.

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Ian Heslip's avatar

Big Thoughts require Big Wine. Couldn't agree more, and pasta, in all it's wonderful forms, is my go-to food salve for too many big thoughts.

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Guy Stella's avatar

Recipe? <wink>

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Edi Sartin's avatar

Always appreciate your work, Hank. Hugs, Insight, Fortitude.

How fortunate we are to enjoy Nature, being part of it - and to Nurture.

Salute.

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Steve Sabicer's avatar

Nothing like cooking through some feelings. Wine helps too. Thanks for sharing this piece. May we all learn from the cardinals how to love.

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Teresa Rodriguez's avatar

Another piece of beautiful writing…My go to: braised lamb shanks with an entire bottle of red wine. Takes hours, because that’s what it takes. 3x fond scraping - limpressive.

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tuffy's avatar

I’m with you there!

Love slow cooked shanks!

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David W's avatar

I appreciate this post so much. I am also going through some stuff right now and needed to hear a kindred spirit. Now I'm gonna make some sauce this weekend......

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waterwoman100@hotmail.com's avatar

I grew up with an Italian step grandmother, who taught my mother and I to make her sauce, and her meatballs…fast forward 50 or so years, and I too make her sauce and meatballs when I need comfort. Once again Hank, you nailed it, thank you♥️

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Ema's avatar

I feel you! Life needs shared food and love! #letsmeet http://linkedin.com/in/emamoes

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Pamela's avatar

Thank you for cooking from the heart. Good timing for me…again. You can do that.

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John's avatar

You're a very good writer. It's difficult to communicate what's going on without just blurting it out, and still have it be engaging. Meaning wrapped in a red sauce (which is very reminiscent of the one I grew up with).

You'll heal...again.

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