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Venturing out in public with my mom, who has severe dementia.

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Holly Heyser
May 10, 2022
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If you follow me on Instagram, you will occasionally see selfies of me, my mom, and often my sister Katrina, with the caption, “Mom time!”

Those two words mean a lot more than you’d think.

That I can photograph my mother at all is a function of dementia so advanced that she has forgotten she hates to be photographed, so she no longer makes ugly faces at t…

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